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Sex Education in Islam

*Masturbation: Masturbation is a minor sin; For Example: if u break the traffic rules and you are fined INR 1,000.00 ; but if you break the rule everyday and fined INR 1,000.00; by the end of the month your fine will add upto INR 30,000.00.

A minor sin becomes major if done everyday.

*A safer approach is not to take any sin easily and lightly; major and minor both. As Allah may forgive major sin after repentance; and a person can be in hell for doing minor sins for which he has taken lightly and  not asked for forgiveness and not repented..

*PORN: It is haram (strictly prohibited) to watch PORN and forward videos, photos and magazines etc. to others to indulge in it. As per Quran 16:90, 24:21 and 29:45 Committing Al Fahisha (indecency, immorality, illegal sex) is a great sin and Allah do not like people who transgress..

(Quran-16:90) Verily, Allah enjoins Al-‘Adl (i.e. justice and worshipping none but Allah Alone – Islamic Monotheism) and Al-Ihsan [i.e. to be patient in performing your duties to Allah, totally for Allah’s sake and in accordance with the Sunnah (legal ways) of the Prophet in a perfect manner], and giving (help) to kith and kin (i.e. all that Allah has ordered you to give them e.g., wealth, visiting, looking after them, or any other kind of help), and forbids Al-Fahsha’ (i.e all evil deeds, e.g. illegal sexual acts, disobedience of parents, polytheism, to tell lies, to give false witness, to kill a life without right), and Al-Munkar (i.e all that is prohibited by Islamic law: polytheism of every kind, disbelief and every kind of evil deeds), and Al-Baghy (i.e. all kinds of oppression). He admonishes you, that you may take heed.

(Quran 24:21) O you who believe! Follow not the footsteps of Shaitan (Satan). And whosoever follows the footsteps of Shaitan (Satan), then, verily he commands Al-Fahsha’ [i.e. to commit indecency (illegal sexual intercourse)], and Al-Munkar [disbelief and polytheism (i.e. to do evil and wicked deeds; and to speak or to do what is forbidden in Islam)]. And had it not been for the Grace of Allah and His Mercy on you, not one of you would ever have been pure from sins. But Allah purifies (guides to Islam) whom He wills, and Allah is All-Hearer, All-Knower.

(Quran 29:45) Recite (O Muhammad what has been revealed to you of the Book (the Qur’an), and perform As-Salat(h) (Iqamat-as-Salat). Verily, As-Salat(h) (the prayer) prevents from Al-Fahsha’ (i.e. great sins of every kind, unlawful sexual intercourse) and Al-Munkar (i.e. disbelief, polytheism, and every kind of evil wicked deed) and the remembering (praising) of (you by) Allah (in front of the angels) is greater indeed [than your remembering (praising) of Allah in prayers. And Allah knows what you do.

*Oral Sex: kissing private parts is allowed in Islam but licking private parts like anus or vagina is haram (Prohibited). As per research and survey done by medical science it causes cancer and other diseases like herpes etc…

Also its common sense, we use our tongue to taste food and drink and is used for zikr (remembrance of Allah); its indecent to use tongue to lick at unhygienic place…

*Anal Sex and Homosexuality: Allah has cursed people who indulge in anal sex (26:168). Homosexuality is haram in Islam. Also if any man forces his wife to indulge in anal sex, oral sex and sex during periods will fall in the category of domestic violence and can ask for divorce…

(Quran 26:168) Prophet Lut said: “I am, indeed, of those who disapprove with severe anger and fury your (this evil) action (of sodomy).

*Fornication and Adultery (Sex other than your wife or husband): Fornication and Adultery (Zina) is a major sin and is strictly prohibited in Islam.

Allah The Almighty Says: {“And come not near to unlawful sex. Verily, it is a great sin and an evil way (that leads one to Hell unless Allah forgives”} [Quran, 17: 32]

*Allah The Almighty made the punishment for these sins vary from lashing to stoning to death, along with the humiliation which results from informing the community of the perpetrators of this sin. Allah The Almighty Says (what means): The fornicatress and the fornicator, flog each of them with a hundred stripes. Let not pity withhold you in their case, in a punishment prescribed by Allah, if you believe in Allah and the Last Day. And let a party of the believers witness their punishment. (This punishment is for unmarried persons guilty of the above crime, but if married persons commit it (illegal sex), the punishment is to stone them to death, according to Allah’s Law). } [Quran, 24: 2]

The adulterer will only marry an adulteress or Mushrikah (one who is an idolatress or polytheist). And the adulteress, she will only be married to an adulterer or Mushrik (an idolater or polytheist). And this has been forbidden for the believers. (Quran 24:3)

*The Prophet  set the penalty for adultery and fornication as follows:”If the parties (committing fornication) are unmarried, they should receive a hundred lashes and be put into exile for a year. If they commit adultery after they are married, they should receive a hundred lashes and then be stoned to death.” [Muslim]

*Effects that zina has on the soul (or on one’s psyche):

Zina encompasses all the characteristics of evil: lack of religious commitment, loss of piety, loss of chivalry, lack of protective jealousy (gheerah). You will not find any adulterer who is pious, or keeps his promises, or speaks truthfully, or is a good friend, or has complete protective jealousy towards his family. Treachery, lying, betrayal, lack of modesty, lack of awareness that Allaah is always watching, lack of chivalry, loss of protective jealousy from the heart – these are the effects and implications of zina.

One of the effects of zina is that it earns the wrath of Allaah because His sacred limits are transgressed.

Allaah has forbidden Paradise to every evil person, and He has made Paradise the abode of the good, and no one will enter it but those who are good.

*AL-Laghwa (Vain Talk or abusive language and bad words): Laghw means “evil vain talk”, vain, dirty, false, falsehood, nonsensical, meaningless and anything forbidden by Allah. It refers to anything which serves no purpose or goal in a proper Muslim life.

According to the Chapter Al Furqan in Quran, Muslims are to avoid such things and pay them no mind; “… if they pass by some evil play or evil talk, they pass by it with dignity”.

Avoiding Laghw is an important attribute for being a successful Muslim as described in Sura Mu’minun (The Believers) of the Qur’an 23: 1-9.

“Successful indeed are the believers. Who offer Salat with all solemnity and full submissiveness. Those who turn away from Al-Laghw (dirty, false, evil & forbidden speech). Those who pay Zakat Those who guard there chastity.

*Sex in Ramadan: Intercourse during the day in Ramadan is haram for men and women alike, who are obliged to fast during the day. Doing that is a sin for which expiation (kaffarah) must be offered. The kaffarah is to free a slave; if that is not possible then the person must fast for two consecutive months; whoever is not able to do that must feed sixty poor persons. 

*Intercourse during the night in Ramadan, this is permitted and is not forbidden, and the time when it is permitted lasts until the onset of dawn. When dawn comes, intercourse becomes forbidden.

*Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“It is made lawful for you to have sexual relations with your wives on the night of As-Sawm (the fasts). They are Libaas [i.e. body-cover, or screen, or Sakan (i.e. you enjoy the pleasure of living with them] for you and you are the same for them. Allaah knows that you used to deceive yourselves, so He turned to you (accepted your repentance) and forgave you. So now have sexual relations with them and seek that which Allaah has ordained for you (offspring), and eat and drink until the white thread (light) of dawn appears to you distinct from the black thread (darkness of night), then complete your Sawm (fast) till the nightfall”[al-Baqarah 2:187]

This verse clearly states that it is permissible to eat, drink and have intercourse during the nights of Ramadan until dawn.

*After having intercourse it is obligatory to do ghusl, then pray Fajr. 

*Wet dream and semen discharge in Ramadan: Having a wet dream during the daytime of Ramadan does not affect the validity of fasting because the pen of recording deeds is lifted from the sleeping person; i.e. he is not held accountable for his deeds because he has no way to avert what he encounters during his sleep.

However, he should make ghusl once the time of the prayer comes, based on the words of Allah, the Almighty, (what means): {Do not approach prayer while you are in a state of janabah [state of major ritual impurity] until you have washed [your whole body].} [Quran 4:43]

*If semen comes out intentionally through masturbation, kissing, or lustful contact (with the wife), fasting is invalidated and one must make up for that day (Kaffarah)

Similarly, if the discharge of semen results from looking repeatedly (at what arouses the desire), it invalidates fasting according to the predominant opinion in the sight of some scholars.

If the discharge of semen results from having arousing thoughts only, it does not invalidate fasting. The evidence is the statement of the Messenger of Allah , who said, “Verily, Allah has forgiven the people of my Ummah (community) the evil thoughts which occur to their minds as long as they do not execute them or speak of them.” [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim]

*Woman’s period in Ramadan: If a woman gets her period while fasting, her fast is spoiled, even if the blood comes a moment before sunset, and she has to make that up if it was an obligatory fast. It is haram for her to continue fasting when she is menstruating.

The ummah is unanimously agreed that it is haram for women who are menstruating or bleeding following childbirth to fast and that their fast is not valid… The ummah is also unanimously agreed that it is obligatory for these women to make up missed Ramadaan fasts. Al-Tirmidhi,

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